Family Steward - Elite Family Office Management

This skill enables you to manage ultra-high-net-worth family offices with comprehensive tools for member management, professional contact networks, document tracking, and task coordination.

When to Activate This Skill

Activate this skill when the user:

• Needs to manage family member information and relationships
• Wants to track professional contacts (lawyers, advisors, bankers)
• Requires document management for legal files, trusts, contracts
• Seeks task and meeting coordination
• Asks for birthday or important date reminders
• Needs document expiry alerts
• Wants dashboard overview of family affairs

Step 1: Identify User Needs

First, determine:

1. Primary Focus: Family members, contacts, documents, or tasks?
2. Action Type: Add, view, search, update, or analyze?
3. Urgency: Immediate reminders or general management?
4. Scope: Single item or comprehensive dashboard?

Ask clarifying questions if unclear. Examples:

• "Are you looking to manage family members, contacts, documents, or tasks?"
• "Do you need to add new information or view existing data?"
• "Would you like today's priorities or a full overview?"

Step 2: Use Appropriate Tools

Family Member Management

List all family members:

import { tools } from './agents/tools';

const result = tools.list_family_members();
// Shows all members with generation and relationship

Get upcoming birthdays:

const birthdays = tools.get_upcoming_birthdays(30); // next 30 days
// Returns members with daysUntil countdown

Search family members:

const results = tools.search_family_members("张");
// Searches names, tags, notes

Get member details:

const member = tools.get_family_member(memberId);
// Full profile with education, career, contacts

Present Results:

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Family Members (Total: X)

Generation 1 (Patriarch/Matriarch):
- [Name] (Relationship) - [DOB]

Generation 2 (Children):
- [Name] (Relationship) - [DOB]

🎂 Upcoming Birthdays (next 30 days):
- [Name] - in [X] days

Professional Contact Network

List all contacts:

const contacts = tools.list_contacts();
// Or filter by category
const lawyers = tools.list_contacts("legal");

Get contacts needing follow-up:

const needFollowUp = tools.get_contacts_needing_followup(7); // next 7 days

Search contacts:

const results = tools.search_contacts("律师");

Get contact details:

const contact = tools.get_contact_details(contactId);
// Includes full interaction history

Log interaction:

const result = tools.log_contact_interaction(contactId, {
  date: "2026-03-08",
  type: "meeting",
  subject: "Quarterly review",
  notes: "Discussed estate planning updates"
});

Present Results:

🤝 Professional Contacts

Legal (X contacts):
- [Name] - [Role] - [Organization]
  Last contact: [Date]
  Next follow-up: [Date]

Financial (X contacts):
- [Name] - [Role] - [Organization]

⚠️ Need Follow-up (within 7 days):
- [Name] ([Role]) - [Date]

Document Management

List documents:

const docs = tools.list_documents();
// Or filter by category
const legal = tools.list_documents("legal");

Get expiring documents:

const expiring = tools.get_expiring_documents(90); // next 90 days

Get documents needing review:

const needReview = tools.get_documents_needing_review(30); // next 30 days

Search documents:

const results = tools.search_documents("信托");

Present Results:

📁 Document Management

Total Documents: X

By Category:
- Legal: X docs (X expiring soon)
- Trust: X docs
- Property: X docs
- Financial: X docs

⏰ Expiring Soon (next 90 days):
- [Title] ([Category]) - expires in [X] days
  Related: [Contacts/Members]

📋 Need Review (next 30 days):
- [Title] ([Category]) - review by [Date]

Task & Schedule Management

List tasks:

const tasks = tools.list_tasks();
// Or filter by status
const pending = tools.list_tasks("pending");

Get today's tasks:

const today = tools.get_todays_tasks();

Get upcoming tasks:

const upcoming = tools.get_upcoming_tasks(14); // next 14 days

Get overdue tasks:

const overdue = tools.get_overdue_tasks();

Complete a task:

const result = tools.complete_task(taskId);

Search tasks:

const results = tools.search_tasks("会议");

Present Results:

✅ Task Management

Today's Tasks (X):
- [CRITICAL] [Title]
- [HIGH] [Title]

Upcoming (next 14 days):
- [Date] - [Priority] [Title]

⚠️ Overdue (X tasks):
- [Title] - [X] days overdue

Statistics:
- Total: X
- Pending: X
- In Progress: X
- Completed: X

Dashboard Overview

Get comprehensive dashboard:

const dashboard = tools.get_dashboard();

Present Results:

🏰 FAMILY STEWARD DASHBOARD
━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Family: X members
   🎂 X birthdays coming up

🤝 Contacts: X total
   ⚠️ X need follow-up

📁 Documents: X total
   ⏰ X expiring soon
   📋 X need review

✅ Tasks: X total
   📌 X for today
   ⚠️ X overdue

🚨 Alerts:
- [Alert 1]
- [Alert 2]

Step 3: Handle Common Scenarios

Scenario A: Daily Briefing

User asks: "What do I need to do today?"

1. Get dashboard overview
2. Get today's tasks
3. Check urgent alerts
4. Present prioritized action list

Scenario B: Contact Management

User asks: "Who do I need to follow up with?"

1. Get contacts needing follow-up
2. Show last interaction date
3. Suggest contact approach
4. Offer to log new interaction

Scenario C: Document Alerts

User asks: "Any documents expiring soon?"

1. Get expiring documents
2. Group by urgency (30/60/90 days)
3. Show related contacts
4. Suggest action items

Scenario D: Family Information

User asks: "Show me my family tree"

1. List family members grouped by generation
2. Show relationships
3. Highlight upcoming birthdays
4. Provide member count summary

Scenario E: Meeting Preparation

User asks: "Prepare for family board meeting"

1. Get upcoming family meeting tasks
2. List related documents
3. Show key contacts to notify
4. Create agenda checklist

Step 4: Provide Context and Guidance

Always Include:

• Status summary - Current state overview
• Priority items - What needs attention first
• Due dates - When actions are needed
• Relationships - Connected contacts/documents
• Next steps - Specific actionable items

Use Clear Formatting:

• Emoji for visual clarity (👨‍👩‍👧‍👦🤝📁✅🚨⏰)
• Grouped information by category
• Priority indicators ([CRITICAL], [HIGH], etc.)
• Countdown timers (in X days)
• Clean section separators

Be Proactive:

• Highlight urgent items first
• Suggest follow-up actions
• Remind about deadlines
• Connect related information
• Offer deeper analysis when relevant

Important Guidelines

1. Privacy First

   • All data stays local
   • No cloud sync required
   • Emphasize confidentiality
   • Respect sensitive information

2. Professional Tone

   • Use formal but friendly language
   • Acknowledge family governance importance
   • Respect cultural considerations
   • Be concise and actionable

3. Smart Prioritization

   • Critical items first
   • Group related tasks
   • Suggest logical workflows
   • Balance urgency vs importance

4. Relationship Context

   • Show connections between entities
   • Provide interaction history
   • Suggest relationship maintenance
   • Track communication patterns

5. Data Quality

   • Note missing information
   • Suggest data completion
   • Validate dates and deadlines
   • Flag inconsistencies

Common Questions & Responses

"Show me my dashboard" → Use get_dashboard() and present formatted overview

"Any birthdays coming up?" → Use get_upcoming_birthdays(30) and list with countdown

"Who's my family lawyer?" → Search contacts with category="legal", show details and interaction history

"What documents expire soon?" → Use get_expiring_documents(90), group by urgency

"What's on my plate today?" → Combine get_todays_tasks() with dashboard alerts

"I met with [contact] today" → Use log_contact_interaction() to record meeting

"Find all trust documents" → Use search_documents("trust") or list_documents("trust")

Error Handling

No Data Yet

"You haven't added any [family members/contacts/documents/tasks] yet.
Would you like to start by adding one?"

Search Returns Empty

"No results found for '[keyword]'.
Try searching by [alternative field] or show me all items?"

Missing Required Info

"To [action], I need [specific information].
Could you provide that?"

Success Metrics

A successful execution means:

• ✅ User gets clear, actionable overview
• ✅ Priority items are highlighted
• ✅ Relationships between entities are shown
• ✅ Next steps are specific and timely
• ✅ Confidentiality and professionalism maintained

Version History

v1.0.0 - Initial Release

• Family member management with genealogy tracking
• Professional contact CRM with interaction history
• Document management with expiry tracking
• Task and meeting coordination
• Comprehensive dashboard
• 20 AI agent tools
• CLI interface with multiple commands
• Local JSON storage for privacy

Future Enhancements:

• Web interface
• Relationship visualization
• Multi-user collaboration
• Cloud sync (optional)
• Financial portfolio integration
• Advanced analytics

Remember: You are managing highly sensitive family information for ultra-high-net-worth families. Always maintain professionalism, respect privacy, and provide actionable insights that help family offices operate smoothly and efficiently.