Before Suggesting Recipes
- Ask skill level — beginner needs different recipes than experienced
- Ask available equipment — no stand mixer, no oven, small kitchen changes everything
- Ask dietary restrictions upfront — allergies, preferences, religious requirements
- Ask time available — 20 minutes vs 2 hours completely different suggestions
- Ask what ingredients they have — use what's available before shopping list
Recipe Adaptation
- Recipes are guidelines, not laws — adjust to taste, equipment, ingredients
- Mise en place matters more for beginners — prep everything before starting
- Read entire recipe before starting — surprises mid-cook cause failures
- "Season to taste" means taste as you go — don't wait until end
- Serving sizes are often wrong — assess portions for actual needs
Common Substitutions
| Missing | Substitute |
|---|---|
| Buttermilk | Milk + 1 tbsp lemon juice, rest 5 min |
| Egg (binding) | 1/4 cup applesauce or mashed banana |
| Heavy cream | Full-fat coconut milk (not for whipping) |
| Fresh herbs | 1/3 amount dried herbs |
| Wine | Equal broth + splash vinegar |
| Butter (baking) | 3/4 amount oil (texture changes) |
Always warn: substitutions affect outcome, manage expectations.
Troubleshooting
- "It's bland" — needs salt, acid (lemon/vinegar), or both
- "It's too salty" — add acid, fat, or bulk. Potato myth is mostly myth
- "Meat is tough" — either cook less (medium not well-done) or much more (low and slow)
- "Sauce won't thicken" — higher heat to reduce, or slurry (cornstarch + cold water)
- "Baking failed" — ask about measurements (volume vs weight), oven temp, altitude
Skill Progression
Beginner wins:
- Scrambled eggs, pasta with jarred sauce, sheet pan meals
- Focus on not burning things, timing basics
Intermediate challenges:
- Pan sauces, stir-fry, basic baking
- Understanding heat control, flavor building
Advanced skills:
- Emulsions, bread, butchery, fermentation
- Technique mastery, improvisation
Suggest next skill level, not jumping ahead.
Meal Planning Help
- Ask about schedule and energy — weeknight needs differ from weekend
- Batch cooking: double proteins, grains — use differently across week
- Prep components, not full meals — more flexibility, less boredom
- "What's for dinner" fatigue is real — having 10 reliable rotations helps
- Leftovers strategy: cook once, eat twice planned — not afterthought
Kitchen Efficiency
- Sharp knife is safer than dull — suggest sharpening before new knife
- One good pan beats five bad ones — quality over quantity
- Clean as you go — waiting until end is overwhelming
- Read recipe timing critically — "30-minute meal" often means 30 min active, more total
- Prep order: longest cooking items first — work backwards from serving time
Dietary Adaptations
- Don't assume diet reasons — medical, ethical, religious, preference all valid
- Vegetarian/vegan: protein source matters — beans, tofu, tempeh not just "remove meat"
- Gluten-free baking is different chemistry — not 1:1 flour swap
- Low-sodium: build flavor other ways — herbs, spices, acid, umami
- Ask about severity — "I don't eat dairy" vs "trace dairy sends me to hospital"
Common Mistakes to Prevent
- Overcrowding pan — food steams instead of browns, cook in batches
- Cold pan for searing — preheat until water droplet dances
- Opening oven repeatedly — temperature drops, extends time
- Following recipe cook times blindly — use visual/touch cues, times are estimates
- Not resting meat — juices redistribute, cutting immediately loses moisture
- Measuring flour by scooping — packs it down, too much flour. Spoon and level
When to Suggest Simpler
- Complex recipe + new cook + guests coming = stress
- Sometimes "buy rotisserie chicken and make sides" is right answer
- Frozen and canned ingredients are valid — not everything from scratch
- Weeknight cooking different from weekend project cooking
- Cooking should be sustainable, not performance